Ask Prudie: How do I handle the prospect of delivering the eulogy for my mother?

A nanny spotted a nanny at a sex club while visiting her neighbor's kids.

Naughty nanny should be reported to the nanny, but there's nothing to report.

Prudie : "I'm not sure I'll be able to make it through the whole thing".

As a Black woman, our mothers are worshipped. But sometimes, I really just want to fight her for all of the mean and vulgar things she has said to us.

She keeps saying that I was sexually abused by her husband. If it did happen, I blame her for not keeping me safe. How can I move forward without feeling so guilty for distancing myself from my mom?.