Care and Feeding: Is it reasonable to expect my husband to know our son’s general schedule?

Dear Care and Feeding : My husband seems to have regressed since our son was born.

He has not once helped me at night with our son, and has gotten up with him in the morning to let me sleep in no more than six times since his birth.

When I ask him for help, he becomes enraged and berates me.

I have begged him to go to therapy on his own or together, but he refuses.

A friend invited her to a women-only baby shower because her husband-to-be was stationed abroad.

A lot of women seem to view this as a day for “the girls” A friend is doing what marginalized people often do, creating a space exclusively for her and others like her.