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39% Informative
My ex-boyfriend published a memoir about his relationship with me.
He seems to see me as a totally different person from the one I think I am.
How do you get past this? Don't relitigate the past with him. If you still maintain a cordial friendship, drop him.
When people talk about you, they are talking about a secondary character in their story who represents you.
If you take it personally, if you agree and believe what others say, their story becomes a part of your story.
This awareness makes you immune to what other people think about you and what you think about yourself.
VR Score
30
Informative language
25
Neutral language
48
Article tone
informal
Language
English
Language complexity
36
Offensive language
likely offensive
Hate speech
not hateful
Attention-grabbing headline
detected
Known propaganda techniques
detected
Time-value
medium-lived
External references
3
Source diversity
3