Q: I’m a 20-something male victim of date rape. How do I start my sex life?

A 20 -something male victim of date rape by another man is looking to start his sex life.

He wants real sex/play with a real connection.

He's in therapy, but it has been a waste of money and time. Dating apps are brutal. Dating on the job is a bad idea and "real life" seems devoid of avenues.

A 60-year-old man struggles to maintain an erection when he has intercourse.

His wife doesn't like foreplay and lets him “get ready” by himself prior to sex.

He takes supplements and tadalafil to counteract an SSRI that has hurt his ability to stay hard.

As long as your wife is down, using porn to aid in your pre-sex arousal isn’t a big deal.

Many who’ve studied porn use argue that addiction to it, per se, is not a real thing.

The issue you may be experiencing, delayed orgasm, can result from low testosterone, as well as hypothyroid issues.