Ask Pay Dirt: How much do you know about your mother-in-law’s finances?

My mother-in-law spent my husband's inheritance when he died.

She buys 40 Stanley cups and orders every meal out.

Her lifestyle just makes me despise her.

Should I just grow up and move on so she can have a relationship with her granddaughter? What does "living lavishly" really mean?.

I'm afraid of what the job market will look like in the next two, five , or 10 years .

I'm too tired and in too much pain to do much at all. I'm worried about my friend's betting habits.

I think you're clinging to your job because in this strange new world you’re now inhabiting, it’s familiar.

If your friend recognizes that he has a gambling problem and is willing to admit it, you might suggest he contact the National Problem Gambling Helpline ( 1-800 -GAMBLER) The National Council on Gambling has 28 contact centers which cover all 50 states and U.S. territories.

You're a good pal to care.