How to do it: What happens when your wife orgasms first?

When she orgasms there is pretty much an instant mind shift. She loses interest in intimacy and sex. Sometimes this can last for days and occasionally for weeks .

Your wife may simply have a much lower interest in both sex and physical connection than you do. Talk to her about how this affects you..

I'm not a moaner or talker, but my boyfriend says it makes him feel insecure about how good a job he's doing at pleasuring me.

Do people ever fake moans and sex noises for their partner, and should I consider it? Ask your partner to look for other signs of pleasure you exhibit.