How to do it: Can you build attraction to someone with time? —Make the Eyes Grow Fonder

You can build attraction over time to someone you are initially kind of meh about.

It often comes down to the dynamic and quality of the sex you have together.

If he shows you a hotter side to his personality in bed, he may actually become more attractive.

If the connection is as good as you think it is, this is worth at least a bit more time.

Too Conscientious Domme: Don't push through your submissive tendencies and just take on the domme role that you think you should.

Your partner’s disappointment at your sub side manifesting is itself disappointing.

Being a switch in a relationship can be a difficult one to navigate especially if you started off more exclusively on one side of the slash.

A 54-year-old woman and a 30-year old man have a 24-year age difference.

They met two years ago and have tried to end the sexual part of their relationship.

They still meet about once every couple of months and talk about once a week.