I love my husband, but he wants to go out of his way to cater to me. What should I do?

Dear Prudence: Husband wants to cater to me and I feel smothered.

Husband: "Wherever I am, he has to be right there, asking me multiple times if there is something I need" Prududy: Don't necessarily mean anything is wrong with you OR the people who enjoy constant contact.

Prudie : Give your niece room to make her own mistakes, but you can be there to help her find a new way when she needs you.

When you invite people over, tell them what time the event begins, and what time it ends.

Your husband Steve knows his favorite holiday is Halloween , but he has made no effort to celebrate it.

In an ideal world, you'd be the Queen of Halloween while he plays your supportive partner.

Do you want him to brainstorm a couples costume with you next year ? Tell him exactly what it is you’re wishing for (and maybe give him a reminder next October , in case it slips his mind).