Q. What should I say if my parents find out I’m staying with my ex?

Stoya and Rich : What should I say to my parents if they give me pushback about hooking up with my ex? Stoya: "I am an adult, and my sex life isn’t [your] business" Stoya recommends obfuscating your comings and goings as much as possible to avoid hassle.

A 77-year-old woman's husband died of Alzheimer’s disease a year ago .

She feels faint stirrings of desire and realizes she's not done with sex.

She's no less worthy of sex and affection than someone 50 years her junior.

You should try to get over your preemptive embarrassment.

Dear How to Do It: My problem with sex and desire lies in between a hook up and a fully committed relationship.

Allosexual people respond differently to different stimuli and circumstances, too— one kind of relationship scheme not turning someone on does not make them ace.

You may have to think on your feet and decide what the future holds for the person in front of (or under) you: all or nothing.