How to do it: A 23-year-old cis woman's anxiety over sex

A 23-year-old cis woman recently came off birth control for the first time since puberty.

She's extremely sexually attracted to men and masturbate and orgasm twice a day.

But she's having anxiety about how her body looks naked since she used to only show it to people while inebriated.

I don't like it when my partner initiates sex, but I can't ignore the fact that I often feel uncomfortable or unaroused when he makes the first move.

How do I talk to him about this without hurting his feelings? It might be that your relationship to sex is shifting with age or experience.

Jessica Stoya has been seeing a guy casually for about three or four months .

She says she has no idea how he feels about her.

Stoya: "We agree about most things, we can have really good conversations about movies or politics, and I just genuinely really like him a lot".