How to break through the cycle of low libido? Here’s how to do it

Non-binary couple's sex life is faltering after taking estrogen/blockers and testosterone.

Your partner masturbates with a vibrator Monday through Saturday and then goes down on me on Sundays .

For my part, my sex drive has gone through the roof with testosterone. I know my partner could never keep up with that now.

If they are indeed experiencing lower libido than what was present prior to transitioning, well, it’s kind of understandable, right? You can’t relate directly to that specific side effect, but you know what it is to experience bodily changes at this point in your life due to transitioning.

Have some patience and ask what you can do to help them.