Care and Feeding: I’m afraid to move out of my mom’s house. What advice do you have?

Dear Care and Feeding, I'm afraid to move out of my mom’s house.

I'm not willing to get another roommate as every person I’ve lived with save one has been absolutely terrible.

You don’t actually have to leave your mother's home, at least not yet.

Take some time to consider whether you have to do it again just yet.

Ask: Is there any way you could limit your daughter's phone use at her dad’s house? My 10-year-old daughter is very irritable and gets angry when she hits her daily limit of phone time.

Her dad got her an iPhone for her 10th birthday this summer and it's gotten worse.

A few years ago , a DNA match popped up showing a close familial relationship with someone I had never heard of.

My mom told me to not converse with the person on the DNA site anymore and to just let it lie.

A couple of years have gone by, and this person has reached out again.

There’s no clear right or wrong answer here.