Dear Prudence: I’ve been married for 16 years, and my husband has failed two polygraph tests. I need to divorce him, but he will take everything I own

Dear Prudie: "My husband always seemed like a sweet, mild-mannered, caring man" "I strongly suspected he was having affairs a few years later , but he always denied it," "he did many suspicious things like hiding months of phone bills and having midnight texts" "We stopped having intimate relations five years ago because I no longer admired, respected, or trusted him".

Dear Prudence : Have a crush on someone else for the first time since you got married? It's not a sin or an indicator that you’ve stopped loving your wife, it’s a feeling, no more and no less.

A family acquaintance drives by my house at least a few times a week, to “see if they’re around.” I’m not convinced that crushes arise as a result of friendship scarcity.

Dear Prudence : My mother-in-law has not been appreciative of the girl names I've picked out for our children.

She’s even shared these girl names with her co-workers and friends just to try and get more opinions that might sway me.

This is a great opportunity for your husband to run interference with his mother.