How to do it: I’m too small to satisfy my husband and he’s got the biggest dildo I’ve ever seen

I'm worried that I'm too small to satisfy him and haven't been able to think about anything else since.

Your husband’s sex toy is not necessarily a reflection of how he feels about sex with you, so the best way to approach this is to give him the benefit of the doubt until he proves you wrong.

The idea of using the genitals I was born with, or even letting someone see them, has always made me feel physically sick.

But now I’m actively moving forward toward getting bottom surgery, and the idea of possibly using my future penis is nowhere near as upsetting.

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A good way to get to know what you want to experience sexually with others is getting to know yourself through masturbation.

In terms of actually dating, Constantinides recommends talking to other trans guys because there is no one way to do it.

Deciding what you disclose about your gender identity up front (or at all) when dating should also be done ahead of time.