How to Do It: A 45-year-old pansexual woman’s sense of smell is off the charts

The smell of bodies has become extremely off-putting to my new partner.

I can smell stinky cheese in the fridge when the fridge is closed.

I've tried showering with them before sex to see if that helps (it doesn't) and using scented products on my own skin to try to drown out their smell.

Husband has hyperspermia, a medical condition that is generally considered benign.

Hyperspermia refers to semen volume that is above 6 milliliters or about 1.20 teaspoons per ejaculation.

It may lead to fertility issues, perhaps because of the lower sperm concentration within the high fluid content.

Ask for reassurance that he’s still attracted to you and isn’t having an affair.

Inquire about what he is willing to offer intimacy-wise. There is some compromise to strike between where you are right now and where he is.

If you’re feeling insecure, tell him that.