How to do it: Is there any way to help my wife get over her fear of thunderstorms?

Anxious wife has been particularly fearful of thunderstorms since she was young.

Husband and wife have been active on the sex party scene for a few months .

He's about ready to demand we give it up, but you're not getting laid.

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Your sex life has been stagnant for a while, but we typically follow a pretty set routine.

How can we break the cycle and start changing things up? I come easily, while my husband takes a long time and often requires a pretty specific position.

If she lashes out again, that's relevant to your decision about issuing an ultimatum.