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I'm a psychologist who studies couples: What people fight about the most in relationships—No. 1 can lead to divorce

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A sour tone or attitude is by far the most common reason couples fight.

In marital research, contempt is one of the most reliable predictors of divorce.

Arguments about family relations often reflect fundamental misalignments and unmet needs.

In situations involving children, arguments usually boil down to value clashes.

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